Bridezilla ke aku?

Assalammualaikum;

I have more than a year to prepare for my wedding. InshaAllah, my parent will discuss and confirm the date with his parent very soon.

Am I a happy bunny?

At some point, I can't wait to get married. At times, I'm worried on the budget issues.

But I've always in a positive mind. Rezeki itu Jaminan Allah.

There are times, I wish the wedding will be in more later year.

I just want everything to be perfect. With my very own budget.

Tapi siapa kita untuk menolak Qada dan Qadar Allah.

At times, it is difficult for me to satisfy both sides. My parent wants a simple, the simplest wedding ever.

While the other side wants, the best for their son.

At times, I wish no such Adat.

At times, I wish to wear those traditional attire.

And in the end, I am not sure. Am I happy, or it's just the the study stress building up?

Sebelum cont membaca, kita minta maaf andai post ni menyakitkan hati. Sekadar berkongsi rasa hati.

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Talking about the wedding preparations. Our attire will only be purchase early next year.

I'm thinking to wear songket, for reception on his side.

And, I guess I know better.

So, you out there....Janganlah simply cakap, "Baju dia mesti mahal. Songket. Ada kali BND10k".

Excuse me, I agree to the statement if it is songket Brunei.

Songket Pakistan paling mahalpun RM300. If you were to buy in Brunei pun, paling mahal BND500.

I can be very emotional on certain issues. And I don't like people exaggerating.

Jgn keluarkan fakta kalau tak tahu.

And about designer's baju. Tho, I am still a student who relies on monthly allowance from the government *thank you* I'm pretty sure I still can hire them. InshaAllah. If having a designer dress is on top of my list.

Why? Please stop making those statement. I've asked designers in Malaysia. Their range price. Takdelah sampai tak masuk akal!

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Hantaran?

Do not expect any wasteful, benda yang sangat membazir di mata kita sebagai hantaran.

Contoh? Perfume.

Nak contoh lagi? Kasut dan hanbag.

Jadi apa dalam hantaran kita?

Cukuplah apa yang wajib. Siapa kita untuk menyusahkan diri tika diri sendiri terkapai" nak cukupkan keperluan untuk majlis.

Membazir.

I remember, few weeks back. Whoever searched this "Jenama untuk bag hantaran". You really made day, upside down! Bad mood habis satu hari.

It's a personal choice. Nak handbag sebagai hantaran silakan. Bukan pakai duit kita pun.

But seriously, you are googling jenama handbag for hantaran?!!

Let me give you very nice list; Hermes, Chanel, LV, Bottega, MiuMiu, Christian Dior, Furla, Ferragamo, Tod's and etc.

Or, Celine, Michael Kors, DKNY, Coach, Longchamp and etc

Or, CK, Guess, Ted Baker, Kate Spade and etc

I may sound very bossy, please think about it rationally.

You may spend, thousand of dollars for your hantaran. While your priority is; well for me kepuasan tetamu yang datang.

Tetamu harus di jaga, makanan harus yang terbaik dan buah tangan mesti berbaloi.

Mereka harus di hargai, sebab diorang sudi datang. Meng-Amin kan untuk kebahagian kita.

Kenapa mesti ada hantaran penuh jenama? Sebab kemampuan, kalau mampu tak mengapa. Tapi kalau sampai ikat perut waktu nak membeli barang hantaran. Jangan!

Kesiankan lah diri kita juga.

Siapa yang tahan pakai satu handbag dalam jangka masa yang lama silakan. Kalau mcm kita, satu handbag paling lama 4 bulan. Lepas tu terperam dalam almari.

Jadi untuk menerima hantaran handbag, kita rasa tak patut. Well, ini untuk diri kita lah ya!

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Buah Tangan?

I havent decided yet, buah tangan yang sesuai untuk majlis besar nanti.

Paling utama, barang tu harus berguna.

Tak mahal tak apa.

Yang penting orang tak buang.

Janganlah berbelanja BND3 untuk seorang tetamu. Tapi kesudahannya. Orang tak tau nak buat apa dengan pemberian kita.

Haruslah, sesuatu yang bermanfaat.

Sayang tau tak.

*****

Excuse the post. Saya minta maaf andai ada yang terasa hati.

"Jgn jadi Bridezilla terlalu awal!"- Adik kita.

p/s: Susah nak diamkan mulut orang. Mengata nombor satu. Mcm sibanar/sitau pun nombor satu. Pergi main jauh"!